Tuesday, October 31, 2017

2 Months

2 months together, it still feels like its been way longer, but its just a little over 2 months now and everything is going well.
We talk to each other well and easily so much so that we lose sleep just staying up talking.
We pick things out together each taking the other's opinion into account.
We watch movies or tv series that one of us may not like but the other person does so we watch it for them. For me he watches my chickflicks, for him I watch the so stupid it's funny comedies. Sometimes we even find out we like one of them.
We cook for each other.
I do laundry, he does dishes lol.
We occasionally play video games together.
She grocery, clothes, gift, etc. shop together.
We share be it food, blankets, vehicles, who pays the bill, etc.
We help each other with our projects. I helped him with his Halloween costume, he helped me, and by help I mean he mainly did it, with my entertainment stand.
Do we always agree? No, of course not. Do we always like the same things? Nope, definitely not. Did either of us at any point accidentally upset the other person? Sure did.  However all those things don't make up a relationship, but how you handle it does.  Do you apologize sincerely and don't do whatever it was again when you're wrong? Do you talk things out? Do you compromise? Do you love them past their flaws? Do you enjoy doing things for them?
I don't know where we'll end up in the future, I know what I want, but this is life and it does have a way of throwing you curveballs. However with the way we are together I don't see anything that could change the way we feel towards each other. I don't think there's much, if anything, that we couldn't handle together.  I mean don't go putting just the two of us up against an army of the dead or anything, but normal life situations I think we've got that.
Speaking of army of the dead HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!! one day I hope to be able to get more into Halloween, decorating, giving out candy, costumes, the works, but for now I don't really have that option.  However with him I know I will, we just need a better place for it... and living together would help. Lol.
I can't wait until after Thanksgiving he's going to help me decorate for Christmas!!!!! It's been a long time since I've had someone willing to help, besides my son who's too young to do much.
It's been a great 2 months and I can't wait to see what the next 2 months look like, though I'm hoping for much more than just months and much more than just a couple of years. 

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