Goals

   After my separation I started a list of Goals. Its been around 7 months and I've marked off quite a few and added quite a few more. I made myself a promise to make 2017 my bitch and I think I'm doing pretty well.
   I wish I could do more than I have, but hey I'm an adult and a mom. I have bills to pay and a kid to spend time with. I may not do everything this year that I'd hoped to do, but I've already done more than I did in my 7 years of marriage so either way I'm winning.
   With my new job and promotion + my soon to be pay increases I should be able to mark more off the list faster and I'm SO excited! Horseback riding, a short vacation, getting my gun permit + more guns, buying things to replace things I had when married (don't want that baggage around), finalizing my divorce!!!!!! (only 2 weeks left), getting a good savings up, buying a house, getting a Husky, more tattoos, more traveling, etc. Some of these things are going to take some time, like possibly years, but others give me a few months and some saved cash and I'll be able to do them no problem! I love the freedom this separation has brought me, it's going to take someone pretty damn special to make me want to go back to what I'll call a full-time relationship (aka living together, sharing bank accounts, etc.)